Did you know that children as young as two years old are aware of death even if they cannot comprehend what death is? It may also surprise you to know that children inherently know how to grieve normally and naturally but often aren’t able to because those around them unknowingly and unintentionally interrupt their process. When this happens, children begin to accumulate unresolved grief early on and it begins to alter their way of viewing the world and how they show up in their relationships later on in life.
The Problem
While children instinctively know how to grieve normally and naturally, they are often not given the space to talk openly and honestly with the adults around them and process through their emotions as they come up. This is largely due to the sad but true fact that parents and caregivers although well intended are not educated themselves on what healthy grieving is. For example, in an effort to help or shield children from grief, they try to “be strong” for their children rather than being emotionally honest. Since children learn and model their behavior by what they see around them, they begin to stuff their feelings rather than process them in a healthy way.
The Solution
Helping Children Deal with Loss is a program designed for anyone who is in contact with a child of any age who has experienced a loss of any kind. As a parent or caregiver, you are the most influential person in your child’s life so it makes sense that you would be the one helping your child through this, not a stranger. You will be educated first on what healthy grieving is and how to support your child’s natural grieving process. Finally, you will be given the tools on how to help your child get emotionally complete what was left unfinished so they can truly heal their little hearts.
How To Get Started…
At this point you might be wondering what the next step is. It’s important to take action but also to proceed at a pace that you feel comfortable with. So here is what you can do to take the next step:
Simply schedule a Free 15 minute consultation with Gwen, during this time feel free to ask Gwen anything you like about the Pet Loss Support program so that you feel 100% comfortable with the process. This is a no pressure call simply to answer any questions you have and to see if this program is a good fit for you. And if it is then Gwen will show you how you can get started. That’s it… Now use the link below to schedule your Free 15 minute phone consultation with Gwen today.
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FAQ’s
What is The Grief Recovery Method® program?
For 1:1 sessions, it’s a once-a-week face-to-face (or online) process that gives you the tools, space, and support to work best support the child in your life with their loss. This program lasts 4 weeks although, because the grief process is so unique and individual, on occasion additional time may be required for completion. This may also be done in a group setting when available.
What's the difference between one-on-one and group programs?
In a one-on-one program, you’ll work directly with either Gwen or another Specialist. You’ll hear our stories and get direct support from us throughout.
In a group program, you’ll work with me as well as others. You’ll hear your Specialist’s story as well as the stories of others and get support from the group through the later weeks of the program.
What losses are okay to work on?
For this program, any losses of any type under any circumstances are welcome either recent or long ago.
What can I expect from our time together?
During each session, you’ll be welcomed into a confidential, non-judgmental space where you’ll be expected to share the truth of your story as it happened to you. You’ll also be expected to complete weekly reading and homework assignments.
From me, you can expect open ears and an open heart ready to receive your story. I’m also available to answer logistical questions about the program.
What should I bring?
A notebook and something to write with. Books and worksheets will be provided for you.
Do I have to attend every session?
Yes. If you miss a one-on-one session, you’ll be asked to reschedule your session with the possibility of incurring a fee. Emergencies come up in life! However, if you miss more than two group sessions, you’ll be given the opportunity to finish with another group at another time or apply your group fee to complete individually with a Specialist.
How is The Grief Recovery Method® different from therapy?
Helping Children With Loss® is a series of steps specifically designed to help you best support children who are dealing with loss within a set time frame. Unlike traditional therapy, Helping Children With Loss® comes with a pre-established framework, a distinct focus on grief, and a limited number of meetings.